I am trying to figure out why Valentine's Day (read up on it so you know and can put out some interesting tidbits to prove that this is important) is now advertised to the male to do something nice for his S.O. ..and perhaps not the other way around...but I think you are asking for a heap of trouble if you bring up 'implied sexism' today and well you should be. So, put on a little "mood music", download a little Shakespeare Sonnet, or take a chance and print it out and read it to her/him.