Just thinking about that. New Years Day is somewhat sad and wistful. When my dad was alive and retired to the deep south and by chance I visited, we always got up at the crack of dawn and played golf, no matter the weather or how much celebrating the night before. The score didn't really matter (although of course it did). It was being out doing something that both of us loved to do.
I do remember that when I graduated from high school he was 55 and his birth was exactly mid-way between that date and the end of the civil war which seems like ancient history to many of us. Actually his grandfather was an illustrator of battlefield scenes and was at Gettysburg...just one story that popped out.
Anyway, my resolution is to not only make sure my granddaughters have little bits of things for their shoebox in the closest but stories that go along with them. It helps on New Year's Day mornings to do stuff like that, specially when you miss someone very very much.